Friday, September 7, 2012
Nativity of the Theotokos
The troparion and kontakion:
"Your birth, O Virgin Theotokos, heralded joy to the universe; for from you arose the Sun of Justice, Christ our God. Removing the curse, he gave the blessing, and by destroying Death, he granted us eternal life.
"At your holy birth, O Immaculate One, Joachim and Anna were freed from the reproach of childlessness and Adam and Eve from the corruption of death. Your people, delivered from the guilt of their faults, celebrate your birth and cry out: The barren woman gives birth to the Theotokos and the Sustainer of our Life."
"Extol, extol, O my soul, O my soul, the Virgin Mary born of the barren woman. Virginity is something foreign to mothers, and childbearing is strange for virgins. But in you, O Theotokos, both the one and the other have come to pass. Therefore, we, the peoples of the earth, unceasingly extol you."
The kontakion text, at least part of which is also repeated in the Divine Office for the day, especially touched me. "Joachim and Anna were freed from the reproach of childlessness." In the ancient world, childless couples might be considered either cursed by a wicked person, or punished by God for some unknown sin. So, others might have thought Joachim and Anna were childless because they were sinners, when really it was a natural phenomenon that God chose to override by giving them a child in their old age--and what a child! The only woman ever born sinless.
These days, many couples really are childless because of their sin--the sin of contraception. Unlike in the ancient world, these couples choose not to have children. In many places, they are not reproached for this decision.
However, some couples are childless not because of their own sinful choices, but because of disease or malfunction of the body, or just because, for some reason, God has chosen not to bless them with children. In the Catholic world, childless couples are sometimes viewed with suspicion. People make assumptions that the couple are childless because of sin, rather than because of nature. This is really unfortunate, because often the couple long for children and the insinuation that they have deliberately prevented themselves from having children is hurtful. Yet, infertility is a very personal matter and can be uncomfortable to discuss, so correcting these assumptions is difficult.
Remembering the joy of Joachim and Anna, like the joy of Elizabeth and Zechariah and all the other couples who were thought barren but were blest by God, gives me hope. Maybe God will bless us with children, and we will no longer suffer the reproach of childlessness. Or maybe He will bless us in other ways, who knows?